My hill is the one where I don't find it necessary to be kindly towards you if your beliefs are those that seek to erase my voice, endanger my life, limit my choices to have bodily autonomy, ensure that I can't get married to the person I love, enlist in the service of my country because of my gender identity/sexuality/color of my skin/nation of my birth, or provide for criminal/civil charges if I think outside your DEI lines. These are huge moral gulfs, not just political views. They are moral lines drawn in the sand. These things are important enough to me that I would willingly die to see them fulfilled, and I simply will not lay awake at night angstifying because someone is sad/mad that I unfriended them. I just can't bring myself to physically or metaphorically break bread with someone whose beliefs wish my life out of existence or relegated to some dusty historical closet with the door nailed shut.